How Becoming a Mom Changed Me!!!!

No one ever tells you how much your life will change once becoming a mom. I mean it is crazy to think how different my life was before becoming a mom. Not just in what I did but in who I was as a person. Before being a mom, I was very brash and selfish. I lived my life on a whim of doing whatever I wanted without any regard for anyone feelings or thoughts.  I felt alone and empty with a void that could not quite be filled. Boy how all that changed once I held my beautiful little boy in my hands. 

It wasn't until I held my son in my arms and looked into his eyes that I truly understood what love was. At that moment nothing else mattered and from that point on he would always come before me. I never thought that I would feel that way but lord was I wrong.  Crazy how in that instant my whole perspective on life changed. Life wasn't about my wants or needs anymore, but about how I can give this little human being the best chance to achieve greatness and feel loved. You see once I had a child I wanted to be able to do all the things I felt I didn't have as a child growing up. 

Now, although I want to be able to give my son everything and do everything perfectly, as I have grown into my motherhood role, I have realized that nothing is perfect and we have to learn to let go of certain things and just wing it. I mean when my son 1st came I literally drove myself crazy and ragged trying to do everything perfect and be this perfect version of what I thought was a mom. Yet, what I was aiming for was not possible. It left me feeling drained and unable to be the best version of myself.  Now with that said, I try everyday to be the best mom I can be but also find a balance between being a mom and still finding time for me. 

I had to learn that not only am I a mom now but I am still me. I still have needs and wants. So without filling my cup back up, I am not able to fill others cups and be the person I want and need to be. So in becoming a mom it has changed me not just physically and emotionally but also mentally and spiritually. This will continue to evolve as my son grows and I also grow as a person, but I truly am so thankful for my son.  Before him I never wanted kids and was fearful of not being able to be the mom I wanted to be, but now I know that he was brought into my life for a reason.  He truly did open my heart back up from a cold dark place and truly gave me a purpose that I never thought possible. 

So in ending my 1st blog post in such a long time, I want to say thank you for taking the time to read this and share in my journey. Also, that for everyone out there searching for something, it will come when the time is right. Believe that there is a higher power guiding you in your path.  Know that we all evolve and change and with embracing these changes we become a better version of ourselves.  

Faith. Hope. Love. 

Happy to be Back!

After a long hiatus I am finally back to blogging.  A lot has happened in the past year. 

A little update on my life:

In January I was blessed with a Beautiful Baby Boy that has expanded my world in ways I never thought possible.  I took that last 8 months to concentrate on being a mom and enjoying the wonders of watching my son grow and change each and everyday.  With this my passion for life, the environment and activism has been ignited to a whole new level. So lots of blog posts are to come on things I am working on and passionate about.  I hope that everyone will take the time to read these and find them helpful. I am revamping my blog so stay tuned for all the updates and great information.

Try to Focus on the "Good"...

All too often we get caught up in focusing on the negative of life and although it can be difficult, the best thing to do is try and find at least one positive to focus on.  Whether we realize it or not we are inadvertently putting ourselves into a negative and pessimistic mindset, which is just no way to life live. This in turn helps to guide our mood and mindset for the day which can have considerable impact on interactions and goals. Why focus on the negative when all it does and drown you in pessimism and doubt, rather then focus on positive things that motivates and drive you.

Now, like anything in life this takes practice and experience to learn and craft. So know that we all, even myself, have days were the negative overwhelms us but each day you have to try and put your best attempt forward and not let negativity conquer or determine your day.  That is why it is key to find good people to surround yourself with so that they are not draining you with negative energy but rather charging you with the positive energy they give off. Even family can be draining and you have to find a median that is manageable for your life and your serenity.

"Find the Light in Every Situation" 

So, today I ask each and everyone of you to take a moment, breath and try to find at least one positive thing in your life that you have to be thankful for and focus on it. By doing this you can change your whole mindset and perhaps even the course of your day.  So I wish you peace and harmony on this beautiful April day and look forward to my post tomorrow. 

Sincere Love,

Brooke 

Trust Your Intuition...It's Watching Out for You!

My question for everyone today is, How often do you trust your intuition?

I think all too often we tend to forget just how intuitive we can be and start to ignore that inner voice when it tells us things.  However, it is really the reverse that we should be doing.  More often than not your intuition is that inner subconscious mind that is warning you about something and trying to guide you in the right direction. Your intuition is something that is developed through the trial and errors of experiences and lessons learned, so embrace it and listen to it when it speaks to you. 

"Embrace Your Intuition, It Will Always Serve You Well" 

Throughout my life I have experienced much struggle, pain and loss but with this my intuition has learned to identify things that I may not see due to emotions or other things overruling my mind at the moment. So now through experience of trial and error, I have learned that listening to my intuition can help me stay focused and level-headed with situations. Perhaps, we don't realize that our unconscious mind is keeping track of everything and with this you develop a sense of being able to read situations and your intuition is that unconscious mind triggering you that alarms are going off. Now where this gets difficult is that you have to learn how to listen to your intuition and that takes practice and patience.  

I myself know just how difficult it can be to get caught up in day to day life and not listen to or see the so called "signs" that where there.  However, instead of beating yourself up because your didn't realize or see the "signs", turn it into a positive lesson that we are all human and capable of mistakes but also all capable of creating a better us tomorrow. So through this you begin to calm the chaos in your mind and truly clear some space in your mind to have the ability to listen to that inner unconscious mind.  I think all too often we are our worst critics and this is a double-edge sword, so take each day, lesson and experience with stride and know that your intuition is being developed, you just have to listen. shhhhh.......

I will close by saying that I am definitely interesting in hearing anyone stories or questions and I hope you enjoyed this post.  Have a Beautiful Day!

Sincere Love, 

Brooke 

Embrace the Difficulties...

My thought for today was to discuss the fact that I see so many people out there complaining about what isn't happening or what their going through without true regard for the lessons that are being taught to them.  Now, let me not take away that struggles, pain and difficulties are not fun but they are also what helps defines us as we grow and learn.

So my question to everyone is, Why not embrace the difficulties?

Ideally we all want this happily-ever after, but in all honesty we would never know what happiness was if we didn't experience pain.  What would we have to gauge happiness against if we didn't know pain, struggle and grief.  All of these experiences help to mold who you become, because whether we know it or not, how we handle situations determines what outcomes follow. I myself have experienced my fair share of struggle, pain, grief and loss and looking back I wouldn't want to change any part of it. Each experience helped me learn more about myself and what I was willing to allow in my life and when to draw a line. If we are conscious enough, we can begin to recognize patterns and help to stop behaviors and choices are we unknowingly are choosing for ourselves. I think that all to often we ignore our intuitions and logic and base decisions on pure emotions and feelings.  Which can get us into a bit of trouble.

When we act out of emotion or feelings that are for the moment we don't take into context the true magnitude of the situation and the consequences. Without using logic and intuition we can not gauge our choices on past experiences and lessons and this leads us into more troubled water. Now, this is not to say that emotions and feelings should be not taken into consideration but rather that these feelings/emotions are temporary and often fleeting.

So, today my advice for everyone is to embrace the struggle, pain and difficulties that you experience each day because whether you know it or not, tomorrow these will be the mountain peaks at which you stand atop able to embrace and know what true happiness is.

I hope that everyone enjoyed my quick thought of the day and I hope you can check back tomorrow to see what topic is being discussed.   Thanks for taking the time out of your busy schedule.

Sincere Love,

Brooke

Hello Everyone, Welcome.

Welcome, I am excited to write my first blog post today, so I hope everyone enjoys! 

My wish is that with each post you will get to know more about me but also get to know a little bit more about yourself. I am a avid writer and poet and I love to inspire others and spark up a conversation. So for today let's get to know a few of my interests/hobbies and a few topics that I will bring up in my future blogs.

A Few of My Interests & Hobbies...

I love to write short stories, poems, and business articles.
The outdoors is one of my favorite places to be, one with nature and all it's beauty.
I am truly passionate about business and mass media communication.
I am an avid animal lover and activist, as well as organic, health enthusiast.

Future Blog Topics...

Empowering Women of Today
Expanding your Mind
Identifying Patterns in Your Life
Not Letting Emotions Overrule your Good Sense

Well, that concludes today's introduction blog post, I look forward to